On Ladyblogs

Molly Fischer:

When intimacy is your model of success, it becomes easy to assume that everyone is either a friend or a traitor. I had tried to approach the ladyblogs as an observer rather than a participant, but my writing about them in an apparently impersonal public voice, as a woman—which became a woman holding myself apart from their community of women—registered as unacceptable aggression. So, was I a spinster feminist, or just out to impress boys? This was the exact corner of the internet that seemed like it ought to know better.

When it first started, The Hairpin—the subject of above linked article—was one of my favorite blogs, and I read every post. Now I hardly visit it, if ever.